By Nafisatu Olayinka Deen
Freetown, September 29th 2025- Let’s talk about oral sex. Yes, that thing couples do with their mouths, that’s often whispered about but rarely discussed with clarity. Whether you call it “giving head,” “blowjob,” or “cunnilingus,” it’s not just a bedroom buzzword; it’s a medically recognized sexual activity, and it’s more common than you think.
According to the World Health Organization, sexual health, including oral sex, is fundamental to the well-being of individuals, couples and communities. But before you dive tongue-first into the topic, here’s what you need to know: oral sex can be pleasurable, intimate and yes, risky.
Sia, a 22-year-old medical student, puts it plainly: “Oral sex refers to using the mouth, lips, or tongue to stimulate another person’s genitals or anus for sexual pleasure.” It’s a definition that’s clinical yet candid and one that many young people are exploring, often inspired by what they see in adult films.
Dr. Joseph Massaquoi, a seasoned physician, notes that porn has played a major role in popularizing oral sex among youth. “It’s everywhere,” he says. “And it’s shaping sexual behavior, often without proper education.”
Public health student Idrissa describes oral sex as “a password that unlocks another dimension.” While he praises its role in foreplay, he’s quick to warn: “It carries risks of transmitting sexually transmitted infections (STIs), especially when protective measures aren’t used.”
Alusine, a young adult in a committed relationship, believes oral sex can deepen emotional bonds. “It reflects a willingness to explore and connect,” he says. Musu agrees, calling it “a personal choice” that shouldn’t be condemned, but she’s also aware of the health risks.
And here’s where things get serious.
Dr. Waheed Awonuga, currently specializing in family medicine, drops a truth bomb: “HPV-Human Papillomavirus, is one of the most common STIs in the world, and it can be contracted from either giving or receiving oral sex.” He warns that HPV can lead to oropharyngeal cancer. “Imagine giving head and years later being diagnosed with cancer,” he says. Not exactly the romantic ending anyone wants.
Dr. Massaquoi echoes the concern: “Even if you cover the banana, HPV spreads through skin contact. Protection helps, but it doesn’t eliminate the risk.”
So, what’s the solution? Dr. Awonuga offers a silver lining: “Get vaccinated for HPV. There’s a vaccine that can protect you.” He also recommends using dental dams, reducing the number of sexual partners, and prioritizing mutual consent and communication.
“HPV is out there,” he says. “Roaming like a ghost, silent but dangerous. It can enter unnoticed and change your life forever.”
Oral sex isn’t just about pleasure, it’s about responsibility. Whether you’re doing it for the vibes, the love, or the curiosity, make sure you’re informed. Talk to your partner. Get vaccinated. Use protection. And remember: good sex is safe sex.
Now go ahead, talk about it. Loudly, proudly, and smartly. Because when it comes to your health, silence isn’t sexy.
